Real stories about dating and relationships in New York City. Truth is more interesting than fiction.

Looks Are Pass/Fail

As I mentioned, one of my recent dates was with a younger guy (8 years younger, to be exact).  I will admit to being uncomfortable with this, but I’m trying to be open-minded and get over it because I had fun on our date (and we’re going out again tonight). At some point on our […]

“Getting My Act Together”????

Recently, as part of a comment about ending things with M, a reader mentioned that it sounded like I was getting my act together.  It was meant, I suppose, as a compliment. I’ve been thinking about it ever since.  I guess I don’t see how telling M that he blew it was getting my act […]

You’re Really Cute

So last night’s date was as lame as I feared it might be.  If I had any sense at all I would’ve just cancelled (Here’s the background info – we met online and made plans to go out via email but it was just a date and time.  No place.  I HATE that.  I don’t […]
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30 Seconds to Success (How to Compliment A Woman)

You know I’m not a big fan of giving (or taking) advice.  But I’ve been asked to write a post about how to compliment a woman and you know what, I actually think this is a topic I could provide a little assistance with. I’m going to try something different and just address the rest of this […]
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