Real stories about dating and relationships in New York City. Truth is more interesting than fiction.

My Must Have/Can’t Stand List

It’s broken record time. I’m not a fan of lists. Of any type. Or boxes, or false dichotomies or judgmental people… But I’m perfectly capable of stepping outside my comfort zone in the hopes of learning something new. So, last week, when I was at that workshop, and it came time for us to work […]

Reason #372 Why Facebook is the Devil

My move is over.  Finally. The last of my stuff is out of my old place and into my new place. Now, for the next few weeks/months my life is all about unpacking. The disorder makes me crazy. Crazier than usual. One of the things I came across, over the weekend, was an old decorative […]

You Winked?

I’m back in the game again.  Well, not completely.  I dipped a toe in last week, taking the time to sort through my inbox and do a quick search to see if anyone interesting popped up. And sure enough, amongst the messages (many of which were the typical, “you’re cute” which I usually just ignore) […]

As a matter of fact, I do think online dating “works” (again)

Two quick stories. Story 1 I was at a party this weekend and amongst the guests were some fairly prolific daters, even a guy or two who might put me to shame.  Someone, one of the guys, brought up the topic of online dating.  He hadn’t done much of it and was a skeptic. He […]

Sex Myths(?) aka Late Afternoon Ramblings

I’m always curious about articles that claim to be debunking commonly held myths.  My first question is always, ‘how many people actually believe these myths’?  Anyway, that’s me and how my mind works.  Always questioning. Today there was an article in YourTango called Top Myths Men (and Women) Have About Sex.  The premise was that […]
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