Real stories about dating and relationships in New York City. Truth is more interesting than fiction.

Welcome and Thank you

Gosh, I’ve been so busy lately with other things and with, well quite frankly, just trying to stay healthy enough to keep things going that I haven’t taken the time to say hello and welcome to all of my new readers.  I’ve been noticing lots of new folks popping up on my statcounter.  All of […]
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Wow. Just Wow.

I just wanted to take a moment to thank everyone who commented on yesterday’s post.  I was touched that so many of you wrote in and shared your personal stories.  I think I spent 5x as long reading and replying to your comments as I did actually writing the post. I know that not all […]
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More Interesting

I was supposed to have a date last night.  I had to cancel/rechedule because I was sick.  The guy is someone I’d been flirting pretty heavily with via email before I hid my profile and as soon as I reposted he saw it and contacted me.  More importantly for today’s topic, I initiated first contact […]

Gloomy Monday

I love to read.  I think I’ve mentioned several times that I’d rather stay home and read than be on a date with someone I don’t like a lot. So why am I mentioning this now?  2 reasons: 1) To reiterate that I don’t actually enjoy dating.  In fact, I dislike it intensely. I’ve stated this many […]
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How Many Times Can I Be Wrong (and still keep going)? Redux

In the comments (I get some really great comments, btw, if you don’t read them, you should) Derek7272 asked me what happened to the soulmate guy. So, here’s how the story ended.  One day (I think I was probably 29, but maybe not.  Maybe 28 or 30, as I’ve mentioned before I have a horrible […]
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