Last night was my second date with the Tall man and I was just so not into it. I wanted to be. Really, I tried.  OK, truth is I didn’t try that hard.  He’s just kind of dull.  There are so many interesting things about him on paper (so many contradictions: grad degree in literature, career [...]

I feel a little like a date machine. Tonight’s date was actually pretty good. Another academic but this one was a science guy and he didn’t take himself too seriously. If it wasn’t for the rain and the too loud wine bar it might have even qualified as a very good date. He asked about [...]

I don’t believe in any rules when it comes to dating or relationships. I think everyone has to figure out what works for them. However, I have come to believe that there is a danger in having sex with a guy too soon (though I’m still not sure what too soon is). I used to [...]