Real stories about dating and relationships in New York City. Truth is more interesting than fiction.

The Short Answer

It’s funny, I’m always so afraid to write the same stuff over and over, for fear of being repetitive. Well, I am repetitive. The subject matter I cover here on this blog is pretty narrow.  I try not to be too repetitive. Anyway, twice in the last week I’ve been specifically asked to talk about […]

So Here Are the Numbers

If online dating really is a numbers game, then I gotta believe that maybe, just maybe, the current numbers are in my favor.  As I mentioned last week, my inboxes were filling up just as soon as I updated my profiles on Chemistry and Match. And I do mean filling up.  I ended up letting […]

Lies And The Liars Who Tell Them (More Fun With Online Dating)

I know I haven’t written about it much, lately (there have just been so many other things I’ve wanted to write about), but I’ve been trying to keep up with my online dating.  You know, the online part of it. I’m a little out of my mind right now on cold medicine, but I wanted […]

A Quick Morning Thought (More On Online Dating)

So I now have most of the 30+ guys who are in my “active match” group on Chemistry.com in a holding pattern.  I’d delete them but I can’t just delete them.  To get rid of them I’d need to give the system a reason why and quite frankly I just don’t feel like doing that. I […]
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Day 5 – Online Dating for Dummies?

Phew.  I’m on Day 5 of my current quest to unearth the secrets of online dating success.  OK, screw that.  I’m on Day 5 of my assessment of a few of the services that I wasn’t using before and will probably never use again.  Here’s the latest: OKCupid - I received a few messages from […]