Real stories about dating and relationships in New York City. Truth is more interesting than fiction.

People Change

People change, but not always the way we want them to.  I’m just going to throw that out there as a starting point. I apologize if I’ve already told this story, or parts of this story.  A long, long time ago I was a young college student.  Not a young, naive college student.  I don’t, […]


A long, long time ago I worked with this woman, I’ll call her Beth.  Beth was nice enough and smart enough and certainly not unattractive.  She just wasn’t a hot commodity on the dating market. Somehow she found herself dating this perfectly nice man, I’ll call him Ted.  He seemed really nice and was, I […]


My regular readers have probably noticed that the blog has gotten another makeover. What you see up above is the third iteration of my header. Several weeks ago I got a lovely note from one of my very talented readers, Fulay C (you should check out her blog).  She decided to make me a gift […]
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Can a Leopard Change His/Her Spots?

You all know how much I like hearing from you.  I love getting your messages (it’s easy to reach me via the OnSugar system, Twitter DM, facebook).  Not so much the angry/nonsensical tirades in the comments section, but they’re easy enough to delete. Well, a couple days ago I got a message that kind of […]
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Waking Up With Someone

I can’t imagine living somewhere that didn’t have seasons. I love it when the leaves change colors. I love the cool spring nights. I love the snow. I even love the sticky New York summers, when I need to hang out by the river to stay cool. But I do hate how cold the mornings […]
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