Real stories about dating and relationships in New York City. Truth is more interesting than fiction.

Redefining Butterflies

I think too much, plain and simple.  Always have. I had insomnia as a child, no joke. I’d stay up all night and think – why lie – worry. And I still do. It’s who I am.  This doesn’t mean I’m an unhappy person.  I’m not.  It just means I’m the kind of person who […]

Quick Dating Update

I had a pretty good first date the other night.  The guy, who I’ll call Mr. Midwest, was more attractive in person than in his pics.  I actually didn’t recognize him when he walked in and sat down next to me at the bar.  It’s nice to see a guy under-promise and over-deliver, for a […]

O No, Say it Ain’t So?

I’ve written about this before, I don’t fake it.  Ever. Every time a woman fakes it she’s letting the man in her life believe that she’s satisfied. When she’s not. Which is most likely going to lead the man in question to continue to not satisfy her (rather than step up/change his, um, game). This […]

Ugh

So… First off, I think I might turn the comments off for this post. I just don’t think I can deal. My life has taken some seriously strange twists and turns in the last couple of years.  If I were to sit down and have a “catch up” talk with an old friend who I […]
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“…I’m fully capable of changing a light bulb all by myself.”

I took some time off this weekend to just relax and chill out.  One of the things I did with my “chill-out” time was catch up on some light reading (it’d been weeks since I actually had time to read through all of my favorite sections of the Sunday NYTimes). Sometime around midday I came […]