Real stories about dating and relationships in New York City. Truth is more interesting than fiction.

My Gift to You – Best Breakup Songs (Finally!)

Happy Belated Chrismukkah. Does anyone remember waaay back in February when I had that, “Valentine’s Day is OVER” Giveaway contest and everyone wrote in with their favorite breakup song(s)? Yeah, I didn’t think so. Well, I promised to create a playlist with everyone’s fabulous contest entries. It’s 10 months late, but I finally got around […]

My Ex-Lover is Dead

I didn’t need the whole week. Yesterday morning I woke up and knew. As much as I wanted to make things work with M, I couldn’t. M was saying all the right things, but nothing had actually changed. And I was never going to be willing to settle for what he had to offer. Never. […]

My “Valentine’s Day Is OVER” Giveaway

Valentine’s Day is over and I couldn’t be happier.  Taking my happiness up a notch is the fact that I’ve teamed with one of my favorite websites, Cozy Wallet, to do a special Valentine’s Day is Over giveaway.  I don’t know about you, but after days/weeks of nothing but posts about Valentine’s Day, I’m celebrating […]

5 Biggest Dating/Relationship Mistakes I’ve Ever Made

I’m 39 and single.  I’ve never been married, have no kids and have never really lived with a guy, not for any period time.  On these facts alone one might assume a few things:  I’ve dated a lot.  I’ve had quite a few relationships. And that all of those relationships failed. These would be fair […]