My New Least Favorite Word: “Settle”
I feel like I’ve been down this road a thousand times, and each time I get a little more pissed off. It’s Thursday afternoon, and I’m supposed to be taking a little break now. Walking around the block or something. Maybe even washing my hair, so that when I go out tonight (dinner with an [...]
Confessions of a Jerk: The Break Up
Happy SPRING everyone. Here in NYC we’re having the most glorious weather. I’m about to head out for a walk in Central Park. But first, it’s time for another Guy’s Story. Every Sunday I have posts from male guest authors. This week’s Guy’s Story is from my Twitter friend theurbandater. You should check out his [...]
The Break Is Over
It’s Official. My break from dating is over. I have a date on Saturday with one of the guys I met on Plenty of Fish. That was fast, I know. But he’s good, really good. So far he’s done everything right. His initial message mentioned something very specific and idiosyncratic in my profile, one of [...]





