Real stories about dating and relationships in New York City. Truth is more interesting than fiction.

listen all y’all it’s a sabotage!

So remember yesterday when I said I was kinda back and I’d do my best to keep things normal. Um… Sorry this is going up so late today. Lucky you, today’s another fab guest post – this time from a relative newcomer - beanthinking, who describes her blog as “random musings of a 30-something single [...]

Instantly Breakupable Offenses (With Apologies to VSB)??

As I’m sure I’ve mentioned before, I lurve the site VSB. They crack me the hell up. Today they did a post on Instantly Breakupable Offenses, which reminded me of a conversation I had recently, where I was basically accused of being a pushover because I said I wouldn’t automatically break-up with a guy who [...]

The Break Up Email

Today’s guest post is by Petunia Johnson who blogs regularly over at Date Daily. The Break Up Email Hey PJ I want to apologize for my behavior last night. I was a bit out of it and I know I was less than a gentleman – to put it lightly perhaps. Anyway I feel pretty [...]

Giving Up is Hard to Do

But first, because I can’t help myself I know that many of my readers are way too young to get the reference, but it’s one of those random songs from my childhood, forever playing on the oldies station in my head. So yeah, breaking up is hard to do. But for me, giving up is [...]

How I Get A Girl To Break Up With Me

Today’s Guy’s Story is by Dennis Hong. Dennis blogs at Musings on Life and Love, a group blog I’ve been crushing on lately.  Pretty much all of the writers are terrific, making the site a total must read. How I Get A Girl To Break Up With Me I hate breaking up with someone. I really [...]