Real stories about dating and relationships in New York City. Truth is more interesting than fiction.

The Little Things Add Up

I had a hard time getting out of bed this morning. I was overcome with more than just a touch of depression.  It doesn’t hit me often, but every once in a while I become overwhelmed by all of the little things. The ones that aren’t working. This is the longest I’ve gone without hearing […]
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When I Started to Feel ?

That title originally read, “When I Started to Feel Sexy” but I didn’t want to give people the wrong idea. This is just a short post about me and getting older. And being cool, better than cool, with getting older. Yesterday, I retweeted an article from YourTango about why women should look forward to getting […]

A Winner With Some Chick Power

We have a winner for the Valentine’s Day is OVER Giveaway (so generously sponsored by the fab folks at Cozy Wallet).  I decided, before even knowing who it was, that the winner would be #22.  22 is a lucky number for me (I was born on the 22nd day of one month and my mom’s […]

It Doesn’t Get Any Easier

I was at a friend’s 39th birthday party last night.  I told her “welcome to the club, it’s a good club”.  And I meant it.  39′s been a heck of a lot more interesting, so far, than 29 was.  And I’m eagerly looking forward to my 40th birthday in a few months. But as much […]

The Worst Great Date Ever

I had a date on Saturday night.  A first date.  It was, in so many ways, the best first date I’ve had in years. It was also the worst date (first or otherwise) I’ve had in years. And now I’m utterly confused and miserable. Because it was just so nice to spend time with a man […]