Real stories about dating and relationships in New York City. Truth is more interesting than fiction.

The Little Things Add Up

I had a hard time getting out of bed this morning. I was overcome with more than just a touch of depression.  It doesn’t hit me often, but every once in a while I become overwhelmed by all of the little things. The ones that aren’t working. This is the longest I’ve gone without hearing […]
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O No, Say it Ain’t So?

I’ve written about this before, I don’t fake it.  Ever. Every time a woman fakes it she’s letting the man in her life believe that she’s satisfied. When she’s not. Which is most likely going to lead the man in question to continue to not satisfy her (rather than step up/change his, um, game). This […]

Catching My Breath

I went to bed early last night and stayed in bed until 10:30 this morning (early, for me, is midnight in case you were wondering). This is pretty damn noteworthy. I haven’t been sleeping much lately and that’s been an issue. I’ve been kinda grouchy and sad. I haven’t been sleeping because I’ve been stressed […]

Sex Math or Why I Haven’t Gotten Laid in Weeks

I hate to break this to you guys, but only about half of you are any good in bed.  Alright.  Screw the euphemisms.  Only about half of you are decent lays. This isn’t just my opinion, btw. I’ve checked this with several other sexually experienced women I know and that seems to be the general […]


This week is getting wilder by the day.   I thought I’d post a quick update before bed. But first, I see I have a lot of new readers this week.  How cool.  Welcome to all of you.  Please let me know what you like best and least about the blog.  I am still figuring […]
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