Real stories about dating and relationships in New York City. Truth is more interesting than fiction.

The Few, The Proud, The Utterly Lacking in Imagination

I don’t know why, but there are still men who think trendy hotel bars are good places for dates. Why oh why? There is nothing a guy can do to turn me off more than asking me to meet him at the W (any of the Ws) or the Mercer or the Hudson or Ava […]

Little Black Dress and a Smile

I have a closet full of little black dresses.  I’m not exaggerating.  I love getting dressed up, even if it’s only for a drink.  Heck, especially when it’s only for a drink.  I love the fact that I live in a city where there are so many fabulous places a girl can put on a […]

Go Outside

My brain is a bit like a slot machine.  I have all of these random, moving parts in there and every once in a while they all line up and bingo, fruit – fruit – fruit, we have a match.  I have a coherent thought made from three otherwise disparate bits of information (hey, either […]