Real stories about dating and relationships in New York City. Truth is more interesting than fiction.

I’d Shag You, But I Wouldn’t

I have a split social life.  Sometimes, rarely, I tell random strangers that I’m a blogger and the name of my blog and all of that stuff.  I usually don’t.  Usually I keep it to myself. But if I’m out and about with other people from the blogging community then I’ll let the cat out […]
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Ode to the Neighborhood Bistro

First let me say that that title is misleading.  The kind of place I’m talking about here isn’t always a bistro.  Sometimes it is.  But sometimes it’s not. Most neighborhoods in NYC have a great local restaurant that also happens to have a spacious bar area.  The kind of place that you’d feel comfortable going […]
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Wow, You’re So Impressive

I live in NYC and if there’s one thing we do well, here, it’s make people feel excluded. There are so many different places to go, so many different things to do, but there’s always going to be a shortlist of the hottest, hardest to get into bars and clubs (there are plenty of places […]
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Bonus Points for Convenience

I’ll admit it. It’s a test. One of the reasons I want the men who ask me out on dates to select the place for us to meet is because it’s a test. Where will they pick? Some horrid, generic hotel bar? A loud place near Times Square full of bridge and tunnel riff raff? […]
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1 + 1 + 1 = Good Date

I will eventually get down to giving you the names of some of my favorite places to go for dates.  For first dates and for 2nd, 3rd… dates (which I’m really excited about).  But for these first few posts I’m just laying the ground work. Speaking of groundwork, let’s talk about what I think makes […]
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