Real stories about dating and relationships in New York City. Truth is more interesting than fiction.

I Made a Girl Cry on the First Date

Today’s guest post is written by Dennis Hong. If you had to sum up your worst date ever in one sentence, what would it be? Here’s mine: I once made a girl cry on the first date. How does one accomplish this exhilarating feat, you ask? Let me tells ya…. My first date with “Monica” […]

Not Boyfriend Material

So I had a fun-ish date last week. Ending with him saying how much he’d like to see me again. I won’t be seeing him again. Why? Because I’ve finally learned my lesson. Well.. this specific lesson. That, timing is everything. OK, maybe not everything. But a lot. It’s something I’ve said before. Timing is […]

Anatomy of a Bad Date

I’ve been a little too overwhelmed with my life lately to keep up with my online dating stuff.  I know that someday soon I’m going to have to schedule a few hours to sit down and clear out the inboxes (Chemistry, especially, will take a lot of time). I’m not complaining.  It’s part of the […]

Baggage

We’ve all got baggage. Wait, let me take that back.  I know I have a handful of young-ish readers.  Some of you might still be relatively baggage free. The rest of us, we’ve got baggage. Truth is, I don’t think I could respect a person who made it to 25 without collecting some baggage.  The […]

Look at Her Kissing Another Guy In Front of the Restaurant

So last nights’ date was weird. Good weird, but weird.  I think the only way to tell the story is to jump into the middle. Please try to stay with me. So me and Mr. Perfect on Paper were laughing and drinking and talking at one of my favorite local wine bars. It’s a place […]