Real stories about dating and relationships in New York City. Truth is more interesting than fiction.

Can’t Buy Me Love

I guess it was about a month or two ago, I was on an already bad date and the guy asks me, out of nowhere, if I would go out with someone who didn’t have a master’s degree or better.  I’m sure I looked at him like he had 2 heads and said that, yes, […]
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Meltdown

I’ve been really lonely these last few months.  Lonelier than I can ever remember being.  So lonely it hurts. It started when my mom died (I know that up til now I’ve been saying “my parent/a parent” because I’ve been obsessed with maintaining my anonymity.  But there are lots of women my age in NYC […]
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Thought Some More About It/Probably Thinking Too Much

I thought some more about my two unsuccessful dates earlier this week. Here’s what I came up with: The first date that I had on Tuesday night with the guy I should have liked (super-smart and gorgeous), well, I had really good reasons for not liking that guy.  I was beating myself up over it […]

The Basics

I don’t believe in many rules when it comes to dating, but here’s one I believe in – never, never ever, commit to spending more than 30 minutes with someone on a first date.  There’s less than a 30 percent chance that you’re going to like this person.  I’m being generous here.  It’s probably even […]
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Some Business

It’s been a long day.  2 dates, neither of them very good.  The first was just blah, the second was actually bad.  Oh well.   That’s not what this post is about though.  I want to deal with some BLOG BUSINESS (funny concept for a hobby, but whatever).  I’ve added a little feedburner thingy for […]
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