Real stories about dating and relationships in New York City. Truth is more interesting than fiction.

7 Things A Guy Should Never Say Or Do On A Date

A few nights ago I met a friend for a drink at a bar around the corner from my apartment. It’s not a bar I go to often, for several reasons.  Anyway, he and I were talking and I mentioned that the last time I was there was several months ago on a bad date. […]

Lame, Lame, Lame

Overwhelmed with stuff today but sneaking a moment to write this. I made my bed and I now I have to lie in it.  I had that bad date on Friday night.  No big deal.  I have lots of bad dates (too many, but that’s a whole other thing).  He emailed me promptly the next […]
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But I Don’t Care

I’m going to get so much shit for writing this, but I don’t care.  It’s true and it’s what I’m thinking now and I don’t even think it’s all that mean or controversial.  But if I hurt anyone’s feelings then let me say, “sorry”, in advance. I had the opportunity to catch up with one […]

You’re Really Cute

So last night’s date was as lame as I feared it might be.  If I had any sense at all I would’ve just cancelled (Here’s the background info – we met online and made plans to go out via email but it was just a date and time.  No place.  I HATE that.  I don’t […]
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Just Another Bad Date

Here are the details of last night’s date.  Maybe it will seem less silly in bullet format: It was a second date with the guy from last week.  The date that was completely meh. He works in the arts and I finally got around to clicking on the link he sent me.  I was so not […]
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