Real stories about dating and relationships in New York City. Truth is more interesting than fiction.

He’s Attractive BUT I’m Not Attracted to Him

A couple short thoughts. #1 – I haven’t been getting out much, these last few months. It seems like forever. Health stuff, blah blah blah. Anyway, there was an event that I’d planned on going to. And I had to skip it. A friend was going and I mentioned that there’d be a guy there, […]

The Top 10 Posts of 2011

Wow, am I late with this! Record setting late. I’ve been so busy catching up on work and life that I’ve been slacking off on the blog. I’ll try to do better. That’s all any of us can really do. Try. So, in case you’re interested, here’s how I put this list together. I go […]
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Attraction is a funny thing. Well, funny might be the wrong word here. But I’m trying to curse less. I’m just constantly amused and amazed by human attraction. It’s WEIRD. Really fucking weird. OK, so much for cursing less. So here’s a little story about attraction (sloppy segue, sorry, I’m tired). I was out one […]

The Ick Factor in Dating

First things first – I’m using the phrase ick factor because that’s the phrase that came to mind when I sat down to write. I’m not subtly referencing a SATC episode or a dumbass political comment. Those things just happen to come up with you google ick factor. So… the other day I got a text […]

I Heart Black Men

I’m so excited about this week’s Guy’s Story from Totally Tyler. You should totally go check out his blog! I Heart Black Men Anyone who knows me will tell you I am attracted to black men. Don’t ask me why. Not to generalize, but maybe it’s the suave swagger. Maybe it’s the skin color. Beyond […]