Real stories about dating and relationships in New York City. Truth is more interesting than fiction.

It’s a Learning PROCESS

I’ve been sitting on this story for a while because that’s what I do. I sit on stories until I’m ready to tell them. Until the right amount of time has passed and I feel ready to put it down on paper in some coherent way. So a while ago I went out with this […]

I’m Gonna Say It, "Arrogant Douchebag"

I think that, as a general policy, I don’t talk trash about the guys I go out with.  I might say I had a bad time.  Or that someone was older, fatter and balder than his pictures. Or that he was rude.  Whatever.  But I seldom come right out and insult the guys in a […]
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And So I Went to the Date Naked

Saturday was a busy day for me.  I woke up and did some yoga (I’m currently practicing at home.  I’m still recovering/regaining my strength from my injury this winter.) and then did a couple of hours of work.  Then I took a few minutes to call a new guy I’d been chatting with from OKC.  […]

Second Thoughts (and 3rd thoughts)

I’m supposed to have first date tonight with the guy I had to cancel on last week because I was sick.  I was really excited about going out with him.  That’s pretty unusual as I try to keep my excitement to a minimum prior to first dates.  Hopeful-yes, excited-no. I figure it’s better to be […]
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I Am Not Superwoman

I’m not feeling to well today but this is something I really want to write and so I am going to do the best I can with it.  I have a problem that is probably one that a lot of my female readers can relate to.  I am frequently mistaken for Superwoman. I am strong.  […]
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