Real stories about dating and relationships in New York City. Truth is more interesting than fiction.

Just One

It’s one of those things I do that make me cringe. I know it’s wrong. A horrible habit. A betrayal of everything I believe in. And yet it’s so deeply ingrained in my feeble little brain… When dining out alone, which I do pretty regularly, I can’t help but have the same conversation over and […]

You Are Not Alone (and other nice things people say)

So… I kinda disappeared again. I’ve been trying so hard to figure out what to do with this blog. I don’t want to kill it. Not really. But the life I have now, and will have for the foreseeable future won’t really be a life I want to blog much about. No sex or dating […]
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Dreams of a Life

All of my regular readers have heard about my obsession with podcasts. I listen to them all all day long, and then most of the night (chronic insomnia is a bitch). I prefer podcasts to the radio, or tv and even, most times to music. I have a long list of favorites, and others that […]

The Monday after crying….

Like many of you, I spent some time crying yesterday. But also walking through the city I love and having brunch with friends. September 11th has been an especially emotional day for me since my mom died a few years ago, during this same week.  I start getting sad earlier in the week, and then […]

I Vant to be Alone

So I was talking with a friend of a friend about a trip I took a few years ago. I took “off” for a month and took a trip I’d been dreaming about for years. There’s a nice little story I tell about where I went, and what inspired me to go. What I got […]