Real stories about dating and relationships in New York City. Truth is more interesting than fiction.

Bottoms Up

Good morning all and welcome to Thursday. I’ve got a guest post for you all the way from the London, from the fab blogger Katy_Red  of All Sweetness and Life. Bottoms Up I had a date a few nights ago with a man. He was tall, attractive, had a lovely smile and nice shoes. He was […]

How Many Alcoholic Drinks Do You Have On a Single Date?

This week’s poll is stolen, verbatim, from Glamour’s Smitten column. Yep, I’m that shameless. Seriously, I just thought it was an awesome idea for a poll and I wanted to use it.  Giving them full credit for the idea, of course. I’ve written, many times, about the fact that I’m a total lightweight. I don’t […]

The Nose Knows

Sometimes I’ll meet a guy and it takes me a few days to figure out what, if anything, to write about the date.  Usually it’s because I liked the guy but there was some issue that makes me think I shouldn’t see him again. I had one of those dates last week. This is a […]

Speaking of Drinking

It was a little over a year ago.  We’d met online (surprise, surprise) and had a pleasant enough first date – drinks at a pub.  It was an awkward situation, because I was fresh from a pretty gruesome break-up and he had clearly lied about his age (His profile said 50, which was 13 years […]