Cruel:  disposed to inflict pain or suffering; devoid of humane feelings The cruelest thing a man can do to a woman is to portray her as perfection. D. H. Lawrence The other day, the guys at VSB did a post on the 4 cruelest things that women do to men.  As usual, for them, it [...]

I’m all about trying new things.  You can call me Ms. Sure, Why Not?  So when I got an email inviting me to something called Laugh and Match, I was intrigued.  And also disappointed because it was scheduled for last night and I had long standing dinner plans with my newlywed friends.  Then I got [...]

I know I haven’t written about it much, lately (there have just been so many other things I’ve wanted to write about), but I’ve been trying to keep up with my online dating.  You know, the online part of it. I’m a little out of my mind right now on cold medicine, but I wanted [...]

OK, I don’t like doing stuff like this.  It’s not really my thing.  But I can’t help myself.  I’m online now, in another window, trying to get through my Plenty of Fish inbox and WTF?  I cannot believe that these guys think that they’re trying.  The messages that I’m getting (not all of them. but [...]

A couple of years ago I met this guy and we went out for a drink. It was an unremarkable date (attractive and intelligent but arrogant – the classic NY triple) except for the fact that as I was leaving he grabbed me and gave me a pretty fabulous kiss. We emailed back and forth [...]