Real stories about dating and relationships in New York City. Truth is more interesting than fiction.

What If?

Hey kids, remember me? I have no excuses. Just a bunch of half assed, half finished posts. I just haven’t had my head in the right place for sharing. And this one’s gonna be short. I think. But then, I haven’t written it yet… There’s this theme that keeps popping up. In my life, the [...]

Why old men wear high-waisted pants

Today’s guest post is written by Dennis Hong. We’ve all seen the stereotype before: Elderly man with khaki trousers up to his chest. Who hasn’t, right? Of course, whenever we see such an old man, we always shake our heads, smirk, and think, “Look at that old man. Look at his horrible fashion sense. Is [...]

Simone Smash

So yesterday I tweeted about a conversation I had with my dear friend Jack from Brooklyn. I was trying to explain to him (and maybe to myself) that I’m struggling. With my emotions. I’m angry. Always angry. Kind of like the Hulk.  Warning: You will not get this story if you did not see The Avengers. [...]

Stuck. I Guess.

Did I ever tell you about the time I had a guy tell me, on the first date, that he thought I’d be prettier?  I’m pretty sure I have. But just in case, here’s the gist of it: Online date. I show up. Guy is rude from the get-go. RUDE. More than rude, acting as [...]

Child-Free

Child-free. It’s one of those words that I just don’t feel comfortable using. Kinda like sex positive. It just doesn’t work for me. So even when it’s the most appropriate word for what I’m thinking, I probably won’t use it. Because, it’s just tangled up/weighted down with so much other stuff. Anyway, I’ve been intrigued [...]