Real stories about dating and relationships in New York City. Truth is more interesting than fiction.

Makeover Madness

I’m kinda obsessed by the whole make-over concept and the way it plays out in the media. There are TV shows dedicated to making over houses, brides, cars, families… Bring in an expert or team of experts and they’ll make everything seem shiny and new. And they’ll do it quickly (with little to no effort […]

In Love with Love

Here’s a random thought to start your week off with a WTF?: Some people claim to be “in love” many times during their lives. Elizabeth Taylor is an obvious example although I can think of several people in their 30s who’ve already used, “in love” to describe at least a half-dozen relationships, or more. While […]

You’re Just a Fool

In honor of April Fools Day – a brief meditation on being a fool. But first, a musical interlude. A fool in love, we’ve all been there. Well, maybe I shouldn’t make those kind of assumptions. I guess there are some people who’ve never been consumed by emotion and thus acted like a goddamn fool. […]

Cram It in the Boot

I’d been planning to do a somewhat naughty poll today, but today just didn’t work out as planned. Sidenote: a very personal thank you to Jack, Sherri, Cece and everyone else who helped take care of me last night at the tweetup when I started to feel icky. I’m feeling better today, but still kinda […]

Regrets, I’ve Had a Few (Dozen)

I’ve always thought that most people fall into one of 2 categories: A) those who carefully think through everything they do in life, in advance (these people frequently pride themselves on their good judgment), B) those who occasionally (or more than occasionally) throw caution to the wind (these people frequently remind themselves that life is […]