Real stories about dating and relationships in New York City. Truth is more interesting than fiction.

Reality Check

Yeah, I watched Sex in the City.  Not first run, ’cause I don’t have cable, but in reruns.    One of the episodes that made an impression on me is when Carrie was hired to teach a Learning Annex class on where to meet men.  Hundreds of women show up, and of course she has [...]

10 dates in 3 weeks

I have a date in a few hours, nothing big, just a late afternoon coffee break. This will be my tenth first day in three weeks. I want to be clear here, this is nowhere near a record for me. I can recall hitting 5 first dates a week for a month solid a few [...]

Today

For years I’ve had friends begging me to do this. I date more than most people, and I’m a writer.  Before blogging was the big thing they’d say I should I write a book about my experiences with dating.  I was always a bit put off by the thought of it, though.  It takes an [...]

About Me

This is my old “About Me”.  I didn’t want to delete it or the comments that were left on that page on my old blogsite. I’m a 39 yr old single girl in New York City who dates a lot. That’s right, you read correctly, a 39-yr old single GIRL. When I was younger, in [...]