Real stories about dating and relationships in New York City. Truth is more interesting than fiction.

No Dates this Weekend But…

I’ve decided to take the weekend off from dating, but things haven’t gone completely quiet. I received a very sweet next day email from the guy I went out with the other night (Sorry, no time for links right now. Just scroll down and read the last few posts). It was a completely blah date […]
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What Happened To My Instincts?

I’ve spent the last hour trying to figure out what to write about tonight’s date. It was with the new guy on the scene, the one I said came off as pretty serious. The good news is that he has a nice smile and we laughed a bit. But it was a hard date.  Not […]
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MEN, Men, men

So many men, it really is a wonder I keep track of them all.  You’d think that with this many guys buzzing about I’d be getting laid, but no.  They come, they go. None of them stick around long enough for that. So the TALL man followed up his next day text with an email. […]
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I took the night off from dating last night and was hanging out with a dear friend.  It was a beautiful, clear night. One of those nights that reminds me of why I like this city so much.  I’m a lousy photographer, in general, but I took this while we were out for a walk. […]
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My Half Naked Pic

For a while now I’ve been been trying to decide what this blog should look like. I was pretty clueless when I started it.  I read a bunch of blogs, but I was so focussed on what they said, the writing, that it didn’t occur to me that they had a bunch of different layouts […]
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