Real stories about dating and relationships in New York City. Truth is more interesting than fiction.

Quickie

I promise to write more later about all of this. The bad dater has earned a new nickname. He is now Mr. Potential. He gave me a really sweet kiss at my stoop (that’s what we call the steps to our buildings here in the Big Apple) as we said goodnight on Sunday. He then [...]

I Know My Faults

One of the good things about getting older, I’m finding, is that I’m learning more about myself. Sitting here at 38 I can honestly say I have a pretty good idea of what my strengths and weaknesses are, and what I need to work on. That goes for all kinds of things:  dating, work, family [...]

Some Business

It’s been a long day.  2 dates, neither of them very good.  The first was just blah, the second was actually bad.  Oh well.   That’s not what this post is about though.  I want to deal with some BLOG BUSINESS (funny concept for a hobby, but whatever).  I’ve added a little feedburner thingy for [...]

Successful?

A quick word on my meaning of successful.  Last night, as I was drifting off, I realized that I’ve used that word to describe a lot of the guys I go out with. When I say a guy is successful, I’m not talking about money. Sure, over the years, I’ve dated some guys who were [...]

Good Date, Bad Dater

I twittered about most of this (twittering – so bizarre), btw. I was starting to get annoyed with the freelancer.  We spoke briefly last night and left it that we were going to have dinner tonight.  No where or when.  We were going to speak sometime today to confirm the details. That kind of thing [...]