Real stories about dating and relationships in New York City. Truth is more interesting than fiction.

Dead to Me

This is going to be one of those long and twisty posts with lots of links.  I’m warning you now.  I promise you that there is a point (or two). I’ve become quite fond of Twitter.  I think I’ve mentioned that before. This morning @onedatewonder alerted her followers that she’d posted something new on her […]

And My Back Burner is Empty

One thing I forgot to mention in my earlier post.  In addition to talking with Mr. Potential about the fact that I hid my profile and wouldn’t be seeing any other men, I also made that an absolute and complete reality by emailing all of the other guys I’ve been communicating with and telling them […]
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So We Talked About It

I was driving myself crazy.  I wanted to see Mr. Potential yesterday because there were those 2 big topics lingering in my mind (his suggestion that we spend the holidays together and my hiding my online profile).  And the longer I thought about them the bigger they were going to seem.  I don’t like to […]

OK – There’s More to the Story

I didn’t just decide to hide my profile out of nowhere.  It was a reaction to the events of the prior 24 hours.  One big one. Except it wasn’t big.  It was little.  I think it was little. Oh, I have no fucking clue. Here’s what happened:  We were on the subway, on our way […]
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Thoughts on a Lazy Saturday Morning

I’ve been sitting on my thoughts, thinking about what I would post in the future, when the kinks here at my new home were all worked out.  But dammit.  I have lots of shit to do today and I don’t want to wait anymore.  If it turns out that this transtion continues to take longer […]