People look at me and assume that at 41 and single I must be a commitment-phobe. But it’s just the opposite. I have no issues with commitment. I just can’t tolerate conflict.  Alas, one doesn’t come without the other. Last night I was pondering my situation. And all of sudden I heard (coming from somewhere [...]

Yeah, yeah, yeah… it’s been a while. Now that I’m trying to get back on track with the blog, I really wanted to share a kickass Guy’s Story. And so I asked my good friend Jack from Brooklyn to help me out. I hope you enjoy it as much as I did. The Cube “Tell me what you [...]

Wow, am I late with this! Record setting late. I’ve been so busy catching up on work and life that I’ve been slacking off on the blog. I’ll try to do better. That’s all any of us can really do. Try. So, in case you’re interested, here’s how I put this list together. I go [...]

Earlier this week I wrote about not having any New Year’s Resolutions, because I reject that story. That a new year brings rebirth and renewal. Fake beginnings and endings. Here’s my story:  One day at a time. Life is what happens when you’re busy planning. And how you react to it. And all kinds of crazy [...]

We tell ourselves stories in order to live. Joan Didion, the first line of The White Album (best first line ever) We all do it. Tell ourselves stories. It’s how we make sense of the everyday monotony of our lives. The thousands of emails, the meaningless conversations and the nonstop internal dialogue asking, “Is this [...]