Real stories about dating and relationships in New York City. Truth is more interesting than fiction.

Everything I Know about Love I’ve Learned from Watching The Bachelor

And now for something completely different . Yeah, I’ve used that line before. Today’s guest post is from Ellie Stevens. Ellie works for Senior Dating Websites where she writes articles about how seniors can date safely on the web. Everything I Know about Love I’ve Learned from Watching The Bachelor We are only a few [...]

And Sometimes People Want to Get Caught

So earlier today I got a call from one of my least favorite people on the planet, asking me for a favor. I’m one of those weird people who actually answers her phone (most of time) even when I don’t recognize the number.  This guy is an acquaintance who happens to be one of the [...]

The Things We Remember

What do you remember from your life? I’m a fairly reflective person. I say fairly reflective because I have know idea where I’d fit on a scale from Not Very Reflective to Very Reflective (if this were a survey).  I mean, really, how does anyone ever know what’s average and what’s more or less than [...]

Love, Money, Sex and Other Complications

Today’s post is one of those rambling, all over the place messes where I try to tie a bunch of things together into one coherent theme. Lots of parentheses and tangents ahead. You’ve been warned. The weather in NYC has been freakishly warm and I’ve been taking advantage of it. I’ve been forcing myself, no [...]

No More Crappy First Dates

People keep asking me about my dating life. It’s been a long time since I’ve written about a recent date, here. There are a few reasons for that. All falling under the theme – nothing worth writing about. I’d thought I’d met someone interesting, way back in the fall, before I got sick. Not much had [...]