Comments for Simone Grant http://www.simonegrant.com/blog Real stories about dating and relationships in New York City. Truth is more interesting than fiction. Fri, 10 Feb 2012 06:55:01 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 Comment on Good Sex Bad Sex by James Francis http://www.simonegrant.com/blog/2011/08/02/good-sex-bad-sex/comment-page-1/#comment-20989 James Francis Fri, 10 Feb 2012 06:55:01 +0000 http://www.simonegrant.com/blog/?p=7054006#comment-20989 I agree with Lennie Ross on the idea that just because it worked for the last few women doesn't mean it works on the current one. That's key and that's why I think that good sex can rarely occur on first try without good chemistry in all areas (communication and similar hormone levels for example). However, great sex can happen over time with just about anyone you are attracted to if you are both willing to work at it and learn each other's bodies. The problem is we all want it to be amazing on first try. Maybe Allyson is right: If you don't care about the person more than just a hormone driven hook-up you can't really have incredible sex with them. I agree with Lennie Ross on the idea that just because it worked for the last few women doesn’t mean it works on the current one. That’s key and that’s why I think that good sex can rarely occur on first try without good chemistry in all areas (communication and similar hormone levels for example). However, great sex can happen over time with just about anyone you are attracted to if you are both willing to work at it and learn each other’s bodies. The problem is we all want it to be amazing on first try. Maybe Allyson is right: If you don’t care about the person more than just a hormone driven hook-up you can’t really have incredible sex with them.

]]> Comment on You Don’t Have To Sleep With Him by barnett http://www.simonegrant.com/blog/2012/01/24/you-dont-have-to-sleep-with-him/comment-page-1/#comment-20986 barnett Fri, 10 Feb 2012 00:39:27 +0000 http://www.simonegrant.com/blog/?p=7056009#comment-20986 Thats good your mom's cousin did that... Its a shame how parents can immature like little kids (not saying your mom is immature lol), but your cousin was right for it is your choice and I believe you made a good one. Just because someone that has the career and looks of an ideal mate does not make that certain person RIGHT for you... Thats good your mom’s cousin did that…

Its a shame how parents can immature like little kids (not saying your mom is immature lol), but your cousin was right for it is your choice and I believe you made a good one. Just because someone that has the career and looks of an ideal mate does not make that certain person RIGHT for you…
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]]> Comment on The Right Answer by Jane http://www.simonegrant.com/blog/2012/02/09/the-right-answer/comment-page-1/#comment-20984 Jane Thu, 09 Feb 2012 22:09:50 +0000 http://www.simonegrant.com/blog/?p=7056082#comment-20984 I have found myself biting my tongue on more than one occasion when I have overhead conversations on the bus, in restaurants or grocery lines. I like to think it's just because I want to help but it does often leave me wondering why I think I know any better than their friends. I do however weigh in if I hear someone giving bad directions. For some reason with that I seem unable to stop myself! I have found myself biting my tongue on more than one occasion when I have overhead conversations on the bus, in restaurants or grocery lines. I like to think it’s just because I want to help but it does often leave me wondering why I think I know any better than their friends.

I do however weigh in if I hear someone giving bad directions. For some reason with that I seem unable to stop myself!
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]]> Comment on The Right Answer by Simone Grant http://www.simonegrant.com/blog/2012/02/09/the-right-answer/comment-page-1/#comment-20983 Simone Grant Thu, 09 Feb 2012 20:06:12 +0000 http://www.simonegrant.com/blog/?p=7056082#comment-20983 LOL. Lord knows I do it, too. Hell, I overanalyze what I should eat for lunch (for the record, today it took me 20 minutes to decide it was OK to have the leftover 1/2 burger and fries from the other night). But that honesty shit is a whole lot healthier. LOL. Lord knows I do it, too. Hell, I overanalyze what I should eat for lunch (for the record, today it took me 20 minutes to decide it was OK to have the leftover 1/2 burger and fries from the other night). But that honesty shit is a whole lot healthier.

]]> Comment on The Right Answer by Simone Grant http://www.simonegrant.com/blog/2012/02/09/the-right-answer/comment-page-1/#comment-20982 Simone Grant Thu, 09 Feb 2012 20:04:37 +0000 http://www.simonegrant.com/blog/?p=7056082#comment-20982 Anyone who says they don't is LYING. Anyone who says they don’t is LYING.

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