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Be Yourself

You all know how much I love dating and relationship experts.  I love them.  I especially love the way they give completely contradictory advice, with a straight face, and then expect people to take them seriously.  And sadly, people do.  Take them seriously.  Because so many of us are so freaking desperate to find love […]
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Not a Big Fan

My regular readers know that sometimes people will give me ideas for things to write about.  I keep those ideas in a “good idea file” and get to them when I can. One of these was to write a rebuttal to a very silly article in (are there articles in AskMen that aren’t very […]
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Forget About Cougars

I spend way too much time online, reading blogs and on Twitter.  And every day I must see about a dozen references to cougars.  They make me laugh, because that’s not really a category that’s relevant to me or anyone I know. I’m more worried about piranhas. I hope you’ll give me some leeway here […]
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The 8 Biggest Lies I’ve Been Told By Men

The name of this blog is Sex, Lies and Dating in the City, but it’s been a while since I’ve written specifically about lies. I thought it might be fun (fun?) to make a little list of the biggest lies I’ve been told by men.  You can click on the links to read the detailed […]
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What Was I Waiting For?

I’m just going to dive right into this one.  No meandering run-up to this.  On Sunday, The Washington Post published an article by Mark Regnerus, an associate professor of sociology at the University of Texas at Austin, titled Say Yes.  What Are You Waiting For. He seems to think, and believes that he has data […]
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