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It Finds You

A friend of mine is always telling me, “You can’t go looking for love.  It finds you, not the other way around.” It’s the kind of thing I used to believe in.  But I don’t anymore.  Or at least I don’t think I should.  It’s just not healthy to hold on to those fantasies forever.  […]

I’d Rather Be Wrong

A couple of weeks ago I wrote that I knew it was going to be harder for me to date at 39.  Well, it’s started to happen.  I unhid my nerve.com profile the day after my birthday.  This is an old account for me, although I update it every time I unhide it with new […]

In The End

So the European sent me that kinda of bizarre text on Sunday morning that I interpreted as, “don’t call me, I’ll call you”.  And then I didn’t hear from him again for a couple of days.  It was making me anxious because I really don’t like uncertainty. Truth is that I’m a bit of a […]
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But I Don’t Care

I’m going to get so much shit for writing this, but I don’t care.  It’s true and it’s what I’m thinking now and I don’t even think it’s all that mean or controversial.  But if I hurt anyone’s feelings then let me say, “sorry”, in advance. I had the opportunity to catch up with one […]

Random Thoughts on a Saturday Morning + a Song

I’m a pretty open person (the real me – not the blog me).  When I’m communicating with a new guy online, I always tell him, “ask me anything”.  As far as I’m concerned, there really are no topics in my life that are off limits (although, there are some that are unpleasant and others that […]
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