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Something Old, Something New (A Response and More)

Yesterday afternoon’s post triggered an interesting wave of comments.  I’m not going to be able to get to all of them right now(I will, I promise. It’s just been a rough week.). As I read them, the thing that stuff in my head was that perhaps I didn’t do a good job of explaining myself.  […]
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He’s Just Not That Into Me

The weekend before last I had a really great 1st date. And then hours later the guy left town for work.  We’d been in touch while he was away, exchanged a simple – that was fun, let’s get together again email volley. And now he’s back.  Or rather, I think he is.  He was due […]

Spoiled For Choice

Not too long ago a reader made a comment along the lines of, you’re obviously too picky – you should have met someone by now since you go out with so many men (I’m paraphrasing). I’m sure there are plenty of people who read my blog and think the same thing.  That I’m too picky […]

Chicks Look On the Bright Side? – My 5 Least Favorite Things About Relationships

I’m sure I’ve mentioned this before – my memory is good for shit.  I’d say it’s early senility, because I am getting old and that’s almost a legit excuse, but my friends and family know better,  My memory is actually severely affected by some medicine I have to take.  It’s not something I’m happy about, […]
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Learning from Your Parents – a Poll (but first a poem)

This Be The Verse They fuck you up, your mum and dad. They may not mean to, but they do. They fill you with the faults they had And add some extra, just for you. But they were fucked up in their turn By fools in old-style hats and coats, Who half the time were […]
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