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Tick Tick Tick – The Baby Bomb

This came up in the comments the other day, and then again yesterday.  And it’s one of those evergreen topics.  At any given time you can find an article about it in one of the girly mags (this morning I found one in More). Here’s yesterday comment to get us started, “I had to break […]

Hurry Up and Get Married Quickly

This is SO not about what you think it is. This is National Singles’ Week and so it might seem like an odd time for me to be writing a post about marriage, but I’m an odd chick. I was browsing YourTango as I drank my coffee and noticed this post, Is One Month Into […]
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How Am I Supposed To Answer That?

So I was exchanging emails with a friend I hardly ever see.  It’s not because she lives far away.  She doesn’t.  She’s right here in the city.  But like so many of my old friends (READ-people I’ve known since my 20s) she’s married and works a gazillion hours a week and so we really don’t […]
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Looking Forward

It’s nearly the end of 2009.  We’re in the last quarter of the year, at any rate.  It’s hard for me to believe it, but it’s true. And while I’ve been on a lots (and lots) of first dates this year, only a smattering of those turned into second dates.  And even fewer of those […]
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Why Do You Ask?

First, let me state that this post is not meant to offend anyone.  Anyone who reads it and is subsequently offended should, perhaps, set aside some time for self-reflection as the only people who would be offended by this post are those who are full of shit.  And if you’re full of shit and I’m […]
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