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The Last Time You Had Sex It Was_______????

So yesterday, I reposted an old post (still having issues with writers block). It was one of last year’s Top Ten most popular posts and one I’d thought about recently. And, sure enough, there were some people who felt the need to tell me that my problem is that sex should never be separated from […]

“Let’s have a frank discussion about our favorite sexual positions.”

Or maybe not. I was actually looking for a fun, flirty (ridiculously hilarious) ecard to send to someone when this one caught my eye. Honestly, I can’t think of anything less sexy than having a frank discussion about sex with someone I don’t frequently see naked. Someone with whom I’m in an honest and trusting […]

Was it real for you?

I had to go there. Last week there were a couple/few articles bouncing around about how men sometimes fake orgasms, too. Even Fox News got into the game (I couldn’t resist the opportunity to link to Fox, I don’t why). Which got me wondering: a) Was this news? b) Really, was this news? Once again, […]

“Very Difficult Decision”

It was a couple/few weeks ago while I was still sick.  Coughing lots.  Trying hard to get better. I posted this update to my facebook. “Had to make a very difficult decision today. Said no to sex for another few days, at least. Still not breathing well enough/still coughing. I am VERY COMMITTED to resting so […]

Women Want Love, Men Want Sex, I Want a Drink!

Last night, for the second time in a week, I heard a man make the following statement: Women Want Love, Men Want Sex Now, to be fair, the first guy who said it presented it as a question. He asked me (and another female friend) if we thought there was any truth to it.  The […]