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Your First Time – The VERY First Time

I spend way too much time online.  Between my blog, and the private messages I get from readers here on OnSugar (always a good way to reach me, btw) and Twitter and reading and commenting on other people’s blogs, I probably spend more time online each week than I ever did reading traditional periodicals.  The […]

Dryspells Suck – aka Who Can You Count On (Redux)?

My last one night stand was a couple of years ago (that seems about right, my longtime readers will recall my mentioning that I have a horrible sense of time – I can’t always remember when things heppened – a year ago, two years, three years).  We met at an upscale bar not far from […]
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Enough About Sex, Already

I think I’ve blogged more about sex in the last few days than I have in the last few months prior.  I think it’s time for me to abruptly change the topic. Here’s what the rest of my week looks like: I have my second date tonight with The GrownUp.  We’re meeting for drinks at […]

Yep – It Was the Dealbreaker

Sunday night was my much anticipated 3rd date with The Musician.  As I shared with you, I went into the date assuming that he was hoping we’d have sex for he first time (he invited me over for a home-cooked dinner, which translates to, “I want to see you naked” in my world).  I was […]
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It Matters

In the comments section to yesterday’s post, Teifion wrote, “I do find it interesting that you talk about how nice it is to have good relationships then take sexual ability so seriously. I’m well aware that everybody wants to have their cake and eat it but sometimes you can’t eat the whole cake. Why is […]
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