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Yeah, This Again

This was not at all what I had planned to write about today (Oh, and another quick apology for the late posting.  Lostplum and I went out for drinks last night and I was in no shape to write when I got home.  Truth is, I did do some other work late last night and [...]

Kissing and Telling (and other things that bloggers do)

I was thinking yesterday as I read a post on someone else’s blog (I’m not going to say who, this isn’t about pointing fingers) that I really don’t get it.  This blogger had written some things that seemed to me to be the equivalent of a kid standing in the middle of a playground, stripping [...]

Things I Learned In Dating Bootcamp – #1

I apologize for the late posting everyone. As many of you know, I suffer from chronic insomnia and going into yesterday it had been a couple days since I’d slept.  I got in last night and went right to bed and just woke up a few minutes ago.  I didn’t sleep through the night, but [...]

Purity Test

I’ll be the first to admit that my mind is a bit warped.  Sometimes I just make the strangest connections. One of the first things I thought of after reading Mr. Newlywed’s story this weekend were those old purity tests that we used to take back in the dark ages (aka, high school). Does anyone [...]

Patience Is A Virtue?

I’m not going to go on one of my rants about experts and others idiots who write books about dating.  I’m not.  I’ve just been noticing lately a lot of articles and posts, both in blogs and mainstream publications about whether or not women should be waiting before having sex with a new guy. Some [...]