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First Kisses (and other fun stuff)

So, dinner  the other night with friends and I don’t even know how we got on this topic…  but somehow we got to talking about how long we tended to (past tense) wait to kiss some new person. And then, of course, how long we waited to get naked with a new person. Note how […]
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As Good a Time as Any

You know that feeling when you’re having sex with someone for the first time in a long time?  That weirdness? Or maybe that’s just me. Anyway, for me there’s a weirdness. And, more than that, a non-stop inescapable stream of thoughts. Thinking. Thinking at moments I’d rather not be thinking. Analyzing things that shouldn’t be […]
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Lower Standards

I don’t get out much anymore. I try. I make plans and then, well, half the time I’m unable to keep my plans. So I don’t make many plans… One night last week, I made it out to a party, with a friend. We got there late… not that that matters to this story. We […]
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Porn is…

I’m late with this. So late. I started this post a while ago. Then I got caught up with other things (gotta pay the bills). I was just going to dump it, but I really do want to know what other people think about this topic. So here it is. Better late than never? I’m […]

Good Sex Bad Sex

From: Inquiring Mind Subject: Good Sex Bad Sex Message Body: I’ve looked at your blog and seen a lot on good sex and bad sex. Could you break it down for me as to what is good sex and what men you’ve had great sex with do differently than the ones who were not so […]