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Counting the Times

Sometimes it must seem like I keep these laundry lists of every awful guy I ever dated and every horrible thing they did, to which I keep referring back to.  I don’t mean it to seem like that.  I’m just an unusually reflective person and have a habit (maybe it’s a bad habit) of rethinking […]
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Points for Love

Last week I mentioned the beer and wings get together we had with guys from the man panel.  Well, at some point during the night I found myself talking about good sex (go figure).  I’m not sure how it got started, but the premise was basically that a person could have amazing sex with someone […]

Ready

I was sitting down to write today’s post, had my topic all thought out, when something caught my eye on my tweetdeck.  The Frisky tweeted about a new post, The Worst Breakup Lines Ever. And since I was still finishing my coffee, I figured why not?  I’d take a few minutes to read it.  I […]
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History Will Not Repeat Itself

I’ve never really talked about this here, or maybe I have but it’s been in dribs and drabs.  I guess I’ve been talking around it. I have a really bad history with a certain type of man.  Actually, ‘really bad’ might be an understatement. Tragic. Pathetic. Appalling. And I guess one of the reasons that […]
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My New List

So yesterday I wrote about how I thought it was important, for me, to know what I’m looking for in a guy and in a relationship and to stay focused on those things.   That otherwise it might be like grocery shopping without a list.  I’d get home and find I’ve bought lots of treats and […]
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