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Timing

A while back I read an article, or maybe it was a blog post, that said that men married the woman they were with when they were ready to get married.  I don’t think I blogged about it at the time.  Maybe I did. Anyway, it’s a concept I’ve been thinking a lot about. That […]
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How Many Times Can I Be Wrong (and still keep going)? Redux

In the comments (I get some really great comments, btw, if you don’t read them, you should) Derek7272 asked me what happened to the soulmate guy. So, here’s how the story ended.  One day (I think I was probably 29, but maybe not.  Maybe 28 or 30, as I’ve mentioned before I have a horrible […]
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How Many Times Can I Be Wrong (and still keep going)?

The first time I fell in love was in my early 20s.  I was a seriously cynical chick back then.  I’d seen more than my fair share of sadness and heartache with a little bit of premature death thrown in for good measure and was fairly certain that I’d never live past 30.  I was […]

The Truth

I wasn’t going to write about this because it’s embarrassing. More embarrassing than the stuff I usually write about. But if I didn’t write about it it would’ve been just like lying because this is the biggest thing that’s going on in my sex/dating/relationship world right now. And I don’t lie. So here goes. Today […]
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Scorpions

A friend recently asked me to weigh in on an issue related to her husband. My reply was, “he’s exactly the man you married”. Now, I wasn’t trying to be evasive. My point was this – he hadn’t changed a bit. The things that are driving her crazy now were clearly elements of his personality […]