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Confirming My Suspicion Redux

I’ve been putting this off for a while. Too long. Because I have nothing to say. Nothing new to say. But I have to say something.  For a long time now, since last April, to be exact, this blog has been a home for the heartbroken. Each week hundreds (sometimes thousands) of new people (mostly […]

The futility of reasoning with crazy

I stole today’s title. I was reading Salon and saw an article with this title and damn, I just had to steal it (that’s all I’m stealing, here, I promise). The idea/phrase, ‘the futility of reasoning with crazy’ just seemed the perfect way to sum up some of my feelings about love and relationships. And to […]

The Truth Can Set You Free

Elizabeth Rose, one-third of our friends north of the border at MetAnotherFrog, contributes today’s tale of long distance love lost. Even if freedom is not your choice or your desire… The Truth Can Set You Free “You can’t handle the truth!” ~ Jack Nicholson, A Few Good Men Long ago, in a far away land, Elizabeth […]

You’re Just a Fool

In honor of April Fools Day – a brief meditation on being a fool. But first, a musical interlude. A fool in love, we’ve all been there. Well, maybe I shouldn’t make those kind of assumptions. I guess there are some people who’ve never been consumed by emotion and thus acted like a goddamn fool. […]

Instantly Breakupable Offenses (With Apologies to VSB)??

As I’m sure I’ve mentioned before, I lurve the site VSB. They crack me the hell up. Today they did a post on Instantly Breakupable Offenses, which reminded me of a conversation I had recently, where I was basically accused of being a pushover because I said I wouldn’t automatically break-up with a guy who […]