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Ping Ping Ping (Enough Already)

All morning long that’s all I’ve been hearing: ping, ping, ping.  It’s the sound my iphone makes every time I get a new message and it’s driving me crazy. What’s caused this flood of new emails, you ask?  Well, last night I refreshed my accounts with Match and Chemistry. As I mentioned, is giving […]

Little Fish, Big Pond and Still…

I’ve always thought of myself as a little fish in a big pond and happily so. Add that to the reasons I love New York, I guess. I can be and do whatever I want and know that, no matter what, I just fade into the crowd here. I’m barely a blip on the radar. […]

Something in Common

I love statistics (a fact I’ve mentioned before). I love data and charts and graphs and polls.  Hence the weekly polls and my fascination with things likes demographic trends and representative samples. So imagine my delight when I got an email with all of this (silly) poll data from  I nearly jumped for joy. […]

#MatchKit – A Valentine’s Day Giveaway

As I mentioned earlier today, I’m going to be doing some fun things with The first of these is a special Valentine’s Day giveaway. The prize is something they’re calling the Love Kit which is designed specifically for the single guy/girl in pursuit of love this Valentine’s Day season. chocolates Manicure Kit/Shaving Kit (depending on […]

A Change of Scenery

As I mentioned recently, I haven’t been doing too well on Still getting attention from guys in their 20s, 50s and 60s, but not so much from the men in their late 30s and 40s  – the ones I’d want to date. Things are different over on OkCupid. There are still plenty of candidates, […]