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One, Two, Three Dates – a quick update

As it stands now, I have 3 dates scheduled this week (none of which are with this guy, btw). I think that may be too much/too many, but these are all men I’ve been communicating with for a while. For weeks (I was out of town for weeks and “met” these guys online right before […]

It Doesn’t Matter. Until it Does.

It came up over lunch, the way it so frequently does. We were three single women. All of us signed up with online dating sites. So we asked each other, how’s it going? The details might change from lunch to lunch, but the basics are always the same.  We’re exchanging messages with some guys. Maybe […]

3 Months

It’s been a little more than 3 months since I started to use Match and Chemistry (and stopped using OkCupid and nerve.com).  The time flew by, and to be honest, I haven’t made the most of my memberships.  I could have/should have spent more time working at it. Especially Chemistry, which really encourages members to […]

You Winked?

I’m back in the game again.  Well, not completely.  I dipped a toe in last week, taking the time to sort through my inbox and do a quick search to see if anyone interesting popped up. And sure enough, amongst the messages (many of which were the typical, “you’re cute” which I usually just ignore) […]

Thank You for Writing, Part 2

As I predicted, the guy from Match called today. We had a nice little chat, at the end of which he asked me out to dinner Thursday night.  I suggested we make it drinks instead (that’s one rule I’m pretty strict with). So it’s a date. For any and all of you guys out there, […]