So I now have most of the 30+ guys who are in my “active match” group on Chemistry.com in a holding pattern.  I’d delete them but I can’t just delete them.  To get rid of them I’d need to give the system a reason why and quite frankly I just don’t feel like doing that. I [...]

Phew.  I’m on Day 5 of my current quest to unearth the secrets of online dating success.  OK, screw that.  I’m on Day 5 of my assessment of a few of the services that I wasn’t using before and will probably never use again.  Here’s the latest: OKCupid - I received a few messages from [...]

I’ve written openly about the fact that I’m an active online dater.  I usually don’t use one of those fancy services that try to assist with the matching process.  Instead, I rely on the one that I’ve determined has the largest pool of men in my targest demographic that I might be interested in meeting [...]

Recently I received a comment, not sure from where or who, that it would be nice to read some positive stories on my blog.  I get that, I do.  And luckily I’m in a position to oblige. Yesterday morning I received a completely out of the blue, unsolicited email from The Musician. He left for [...]

I think I have a pretty healthy attitude about online dating.  I try not to take it too seriously.  Try not to spend much time wondering why certain men write and others don’t.  As I wrote long ago, in Online Dating Survival – Lesson #1, I really don’t think that stuff has much to do [...]