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Stuff I Learned Cruising For Chicks

So last week I spent some time cruising for chicks.  And let me tell you, that was funny.  Women can be just as silly as men, and in some ways WAY sillier. I think the thing that surprised me the most was just how many women were overtly looking for a sugardaddy (even if they […]

Learning to Read

Without giving too much away, Lostplum and I have been working (with varying levels of diligence) on a couple of new projects together.  One of them is Cupcakes & Cupid (Hey, single New Yorkers, have you gotten your tickets yet?  Guys, we haven’t forgotten about you.  You can come to the party on the 13th.*) […]

And So I Went to the Date Naked

Saturday was a busy day for me.  I woke up and did some yoga (I’m currently practicing at home.  I’m still recovering/regaining my strength from my injury this winter.) and then did a couple of hours of work.  Then I took a few minutes to call a new guy I’d been chatting with from OKC.  […]

Online Dating: A Follow Up (2 Minutes in the Cereal Aisle)

Online dating.  Everywhere I look there seems to be people talking and writing about online dating (I’m not sure if that’s a good or bad omen for Cupcakes & Cupid. Time will tell.).  Last week Jezebel questioned whether there was still a stigma attached to online dating. I think there most definitely is not, and […]

Learning The Hard Way

There are a lot of dating blogs out here on the interwebz.  Lots of blogs.  Lots of bloggers.  Lots of advice.  I don’t tend to give much advice.  And when I do it’s usually the product of a hard-learned lesson. I’m willing to tell you what I know doesn’t work (because I’ve failed miserably) and […]