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The Truth is Probably Somewhere In Between

Earlier this morning I wrote a long, incoherent post about being sick and single. I’ve had this damn cold for ages now but, contrary to the common logic that single people have no one to take care of them, I’ve been blessed with friends who have volunteered to come by and take care of me, […]

Life Doesn’t Let You Choose

A friend was talking about the changes in his life over the past few years. Major changes. He’d lost a relationship, a career, a family member, had major health issues… And yet, he isn’t distraught. Because right now he’s living a life of creativity and challenge. Doing things he always dreamed of doing. He’s excited, […]

Human Mirrors

A few years back I had a job that required a bit of travel.  More than a bit. Frequent.  I didn’t mind the travel, it was the job I didn’t love, so I didn’t stick with it for that long.  Just long enough. Lucky me, I still have frequent flier miles leftover from back then. […]

Laughing and Crying

The countdown has begun. In under 10 days I will turn 40. All things considered, I’m feeling pretty good about it. All things considered.  I’m not going to talk much about my birthday plans because, frankly, those are for my real life. The life that exists without social media. No tweeting, no facebook, no blogging […]

It Doesn’t Get Any Easier

I was at a friend’s 39th birthday party last night.  I told her “welcome to the club, it’s a good club”.  And I meant it.  39′s been a heck of a lot more interesting, so far, than 29 was.  And I’m eagerly looking forward to my 40th birthday in a few months. But as much […]