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8 8 I forget what 8 was for

How did it get to be the week before Thanksgiving?  Seriously? Anyway, this is a leading up to Thanksgiving post.   When I think of Thanksgiving, I think of sharing and I think of friends (yeah, and being thankful, too).  But really, for me it’s more about the sharing and the friends.  So today I wanted […]

Love Isn’t Brains

Last night I was taking some time out for a night of hardcore Buffy/hulu therapy and an episode I hadn’t seen in a long, long time (I’ve seen them all, many times) came up.  Spike returns to Sunnydale, drunk (listening to the Gary Oldman version of My Way, points off that it wasn’t really Sid […]

Musical Memories

Another random thing that you might not know about me (but some longtime readers might have figured this out):  I love music and my tastes are all over the place – classic punk, classic jazz, lots of alternative stuff from the 80s.  All over the place but truthfully, mostly old stuff.  It’s not that I […]
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Time to Change

I’ve been switching back and forth, for the past few months, between two online dating services: OkCupid and nerve.com.  Sometimes using them simultaneously and sometimes just one or the other.  I like them both (each for different reasons, which I’ve mentioned before).  And, in fact, there are several dozen guys in NYC in my target […]
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Memories aka Is it Any Wonder?

So, John Hughes died last week.  That was sad.  He was still pretty young (only 59) and he was one of those people who had an impact on a lot of us.   I was a teenager in the 80s and I distinctly remember sitting in movie theaters watching Sixteen Candles and The Breakfast Club.  Over […]
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