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Top 7 First Date Ideas, Encore Edition

It’s funny how, now that I have this blog, just about every conversation can be turned into a conversation about dating.  I’d just helped a friend move into a new apartment and we were sitting and talking about a great bakery/coffee place just a couple of blocks from his new place.  As an addendum to […]

8 8 I forget what 8 was for

How did it get to be the week before Thanksgiving?  Seriously? Anyway, this is a leading up to Thanksgiving post.   When I think of Thanksgiving, I think of sharing and I think of friends (yeah, and being thankful, too).  But really, for me it’s more about the sharing and the friends.  So today I wanted […]

That’s So Hot. (A List of What is and What isn’t Sexy)

So I was out last night at a little tweetup, having fun, when all of a sudden it hit me – wow, our group was made up of a lot of pretty damn sexy individuals.  Now I’m not saying this just to fluff a bunch of egos.  Not at all.  It’s just what I was […]

My 5 Best Curl Up on the Sofa Date Movies

First, some stuff:  1) pretty recently I saw a post on best date movies.  I can’t remember where. I forgot to bookmark it and this morning when I googled it I came up with these old posts from and AskMen but that’s not the one that made me think of it.  Oh well. 2) […]

Red Light, Green Light – 7 Signs that Say a Woman IS Looking to Hook Up

A couple of weeks ago, before I got this stupid flu thing, I was out drinking with some friends.  One of them was a straight guy friend who is completely clueless about women and dating, which I think is kind of charming, in a weird way.  But I’m strange. I digress, we were just hanging […]
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