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Mass Text = Despair

First, let me explain that title. I was tired of work and wanted to take a few minutes to finish up this post (I’d started it this weekend). But I needed help. And so I turned to my twitter friends. @SimoneGrant Help! My brain is tired… What’s it called when you send a text to […]


Life is full of misunderstandings. Hell, talk about an understatement! Not too long ago I listened, amused, as a much younger woman told a story of a man she kinda, sorta knew who made what she thought was a totally out of left field pass at her. She was shocked at what she thought was […]

Keeping You Up At Night… The Insomniac Club

I’ve been MIA… I don’t even know what to say about that. There are some things I’ve never felt comfortable writing about here. I’ve been sick. And struggling with that.  And that’s all I really can say now. Other than I missed another Insomnia Club posting last week. And I wanted to turn your attention […]

Inappropriate Funk

So I’ve been in an inappropriate funk for the past few days. And I can’t seem to completely snap myself out of it. I’ve tried to stay laser focused on work. And that’s helped a bit. But there’s a sadness hiding behind the busy-ness. I found out, on facebook, that someone who used to be […]

He’s a Man

I had a flashback, the other day, of a truly awful date. Let me say that again, a truly AWFUL date. It was a brunch date, a double date, at a popular brunch spot to which I can never return. The restaurant is ruined for me now. But wait, I’m getting ahead of myself. There’s […]